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You were the best of loves, you were the worst of loves...

and you left behind several unintended gifts:
through you I reexamined my need (uh, desire?) for one significant other to share my life-space with.

you commanded in me an unwilling re-evaluation of self, behavior patterns, relationshipping, & a corresponding change in attitudes; i.e.: growth.

I'm nicer to people.

I'm more in touch with my feelings, the things and persons around me, life.

And, of course, a scattering of poems (the best of poems, the worst of poems) that never would have been without your disruptions.

Thanks.

Peter McWilliams
 
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losslove.gif (6304 bytes) This is the book I used to get over the loss of my family.

Listen to the Heart : Creating Intimate Families Through the Power of Unconditional Love
I used this book to learn how to deal with difficult family and choose a new family. It's out of print but Amazon will search for it. This book is worth it.

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